You have told us so very little about what is happening to you, but I am guessing that either you or your ex-boyfriend have a substance use disorder problem.
Did he discover your drug use, or was he a user and decided to dump you? If one of those two scenarios is close, you need to realize that anyone using drugs and falling into the disease of addiction will have no room for someone else in their life.
As the need to use becomes stronger and stronger, those meaningful, personal relationships will fall away. Until the user gets into treatment and rids him/herself of the drugs, there will be no family, career or solid circle of friends, only drugs.
That's me too! by: Anonymous
Hey - so I see that you are having the same trouble as me. I've been dating my ex-boyfriend off and on for the past 6-7 years.
I know we cannot make it, but I keep going back. I love him so much, but he has a problem with drugs and alcohol and just won't admit he has to put all of it down - he can't just do a little and be fine!