Stay to help,or leave?
I'm cutting down to the chase. My bf and I have been together 4 years. We had 3 kids of our own(9 all together). I love him but stress, nag and complain to him about everything now.
He lies, does NOT cheat(which surprises me)but uses both marijuana and cocaine DAILY at the same sitting!(Cocaine speeds you up, marijuana slows you down) About a month ago, he ALSO started smoking cigarettes and drinking a six pack every night, while he's doing his drugs!
He does pay the bills, since I stay home. He does admit he has a problem, but doesn't do anything about it. It's interfering with our relationship in every way. Besides all that, he really can be a good guy. He's been hurt in the past,and has some self esteem issues, he's bipolar as well and gets depressed real easily. I've honestly brought him up a lot from what he was, with just supporting him.
In a nut shell that's it. What do I do?!