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Younger brother is an IV drug addict?

by Kristian

My younger brother is addicted to oxy cotton and he’s a iv user. He’s been on drugs for about 12 years he also has seizures either during drug use and while drawing. He has no job and no insurance… He’s 33 years old and his drug use is getting worse by the day and I’m terrified that we’re going to find him dead …

What can I do to get him into rehab against his will?

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You likely can’t get him to do anything against his will.


by: Debbie Wicker


Dear Kristian,

Your brother has a disease in his brain that is telling him he MUST use. Until he hits bottom he isn’t going to want to quit because his brain convinces him that all he needs is oxy cotton and he will be fine.

The best thing you can do for him is to not enable him is anyway. ANY support of him is supporting his drug use and facilitating him killing himself. Jail or homeless shelters may be great places for him to realize that he needs treatment.

I recommend that you begin going to Al-anon meetings in your area ASAP, today if possible. Al-anon will teach you about your brother’s addiction and will help you to make the difficult decisions necessary to avoid enabling his addiction.

You may also want to consider and intervention once you’re attending Al-anon so you can tell your brother that you love him but HATE his addiction. Get as many people as possible to help with the intervention so he will hear the true cost of his addiction.

Good Luck,

Debbie


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WOMEN DRINKING MORE THAN MEN AND PUTTING THEMSELVES AT RISK

by Mark Bryce-Sharron

(UK)

According to a global study, alcohol consumption in women has gradually caught up with that of men- causing health implications for women as an end result.

Alcohol consumption habits of four million people were studied for over a century. It was discovered that although alcohol use and disorder have been historically viewed as a male phenomenon, the increasing number of women consuming alcohol faults this assumption, calling for the need for alcohol related public health efforts to focus more on women.

The study was carried out by analysing drinking habits between men and women from 1891 to 2014, collating the results of 68 international studies since 1980. The analysis looked at how the ratio of male to female drinking had changed over the years, based on 3 broad categories: any alcohol use, problematic alcohol use and alcohol-related harms. It was discovered that the alcohol consumption gap between men and women is closing rapidly.

WHAT HAS CHANGED?

Considering that alcohol abuse has always been associated with men, the discovery that younger women may be out-drinking men indicates that some things have changed. The study was carried out by researchers at the Australian NHMRC Centre of Research Excellence in Mental Health and Substance Use at the University of New South Wales, Australia, and Columbia University Mailman School of Public Health in the US. They mostly investigated how the trends (of alcohol consumption between men and women) have changed over the course of the period under study, and not why these trends have changed. A lot of the suggestions as to why have been put forward by independent experts.

The researchers, however, indicated that because more women are working now as opposed to 50 years ago, they have an independent income and can socialise more easily without relying on their partners. They also suggested that better education of women and increased age of first marriage could be contributory factors- in addition to broader social, cultural and economic changes.

There are other reasons why the consumption of alcohol by women is rapidly catching up to that of men. Over the years, marketing campaigns for alcoholic beverages have targeted young women and girls by creating sweeter products that appeal to them.

In addition, as a result of drop in prices, alcoholic items such as beer and wine have become a regular part of everyday life. Alcohol is cheap, more readily available and accessible. This has contributed to an increase in alcohol consumption at home, as a habit rather than for pleasure.

According to the Office of National Statistics, almost 1 in 5 higher earners drink alcohol at least 5 days a week. This includes women in management and professional jobs, who, in addition to obtaining jobs that used to be dominated by men, have also adopted the after-work drinking culture.

WHY DOES THIS MATTER?

Alcohol use prevention and intervention programmes have often been framed around the assumption that men are more susceptible to alcohol use. Following the trend, the study observed that men born between 1891 and 1910 were twice as likely to consume alcohol than their female peers, and more than three times as likely to be involved in the abuse of the substance. Of the men and women born between 1991 and 2000, the rate of consumption and abuse between both sexes has almost reached parity. This discovery brings to light, the need to consider a reframing or restructuring of these programmes so that efforts should also be targeted at young women to reduce the impact of the substance and related harms.

The danger attached to drinking too much, is in the mental and physical health problems that are attached to it- especially as it is easy to go over the recommended limit of 14 units of alcohol a week. A deliberate campaign needs to be carried out to make people aware.

Alcohol tolerance levels for men are higher than that of women. Fat to water ration are higher for women than for men, which results in an inability to rid their systems of alcohol as quickly as a man’s body will get rid of alcohol. This implies that the alcohol in their system remains more concentrated. In addition, women have smaller livers which makes it more difficult for them to process alcohol safely, than men.

CONCERTED EFFORT

Katherine Brown of the Institute of Alcohol Studies indicates that there is a deliberate effort to entice women into drinking more. This is embedded in the range of alcoholic beverages and advertisement campaigns targeted at them.

This is a calculated approach. Drinks specifically designed with young women in mind usually taste sweet and fruity. The ads have catchy phrases giving the impression that these beverages are ‘girly’ and are made to project personal style and taste. The advertising campaigns also target TV programmes aimed at women which are sometimes sponsored by makers of alcohol beverages so that their adverts are run when these programmes are shown. This is an attempt to sell to women.

There are, however, side effects as a result of which there has been a call for a mass media campaign so that mandatory health warnings are indicated on alcoholic products.

CALL FOR ACTION

Based on the study, there should be a focus on adolescent and young adult sex-specific trends in substance use. This is because trends in alcohol consumption indicates that adults begin to use alcohol earlier than used to be the case.

More importantly is the need to re-examine alcohol use and prevention programmes. The results of the study have implications for framing and targeting of these programmes. As a result of the closing gap in alcohol consumption between men and women, efforts should be targeted at reducing the impacts of substance use and related harms in women as well because, it is apparent that alcohol use and its related disorders are not a male phenomenon anymore.

Although the study has some shortcomings, which includes the fact that it was not able to give specific reasons why there has been an increase in alcohol consumption by women, there is no denying the fact that the discovery made will be beneficial for targeting alcohol abuse prevention programmes.

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by Ned Wicker

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In 2009 the death of pop star Michael Jackson was a major news event and set off a media feeding frenzy, round-the-clock updates on cable television and of course coverage of all the entertainment personalities that knew the singer over the years.

The tributes centered on his enormous talent and that is how most will remember him. The legend will live on in the hearts and minds of the people, while the man himself is gone.

I was never a big Michael Jackson fan, but to deny the man’s accomplishment as a singer, song-writer and dancer, is to claim that the Gettysburg Address is just another political stump speech. In a way, I joined millions of others who mourn, but my thoughts and feelings were not likely shared by many, as they address the tragedy of his life. In the absence of God, we turn to other things to fulfill our desires and take away the pain of life, both physical and emotional.

He seemed to have everything!

The past stories run by network television news programs, like 60 Minutes, show a flamboyant Jackson, buying expensive furniture and decorations from his favorite store in Las Vegas. Then of course there was the children’s amusement park and all of the accusation and speculation that surrounded his relationships with children.

Like Elvis, he had his entourage of hangers-on, who were there to provide “support.” There was all this “stuff” in his life, as he kept adding “things” and as the legend and mystery of his life grew, it just got bigger. In the end, according to news reports, there was nothing much left of him, other than a few undigested pills in his stomach. One story says he had a faint pulse when he was found, about all that was left of his humanity.

Turned to drugs for answers

Drugs are the American answer to everything, and for Jackson, according to the news reports I’ve been read at the time, drugs were an important part of his everyday routine. It doesn’t matter which drugs. What matters is that he felt it necessary to take them. I always ask “what hurt” or “what was missing” when I read these kind of stories.

The American myth of “drugs, sex and rock’n’roll” is just a lie, a smoke screen to excuse bad behavior and hide the fact that we are all seriously flawed individuals in need of God’s love and compassion. But we turn to drugs, not to God. We turn to getting high, not to solving problems. We turn to anything but God. Pills give us relief. God desires a relationship, a two-way street approach to life. We want it now. God wants forever. We want what we want.

God wants what He wants us to have. That is why we turn away. There is not necessarily an immediate response to our desires that is in keeping with our accepted solutions to the problem, and we are not necessarily willing to even examine and understand the alternatives to our own thinking. We know better.

No answers but God!

Michael Jackson is just another in a very long list of “bigger than life” personalities that could not find the answer to the basic questions of life. People who are strong in faith are not nearly as likely to resort to drugs for every function of living. Happy people do not die the way Jackson died. People whose spirit is strong and who know the direction they are taking do not search for such unhealthy approaches. They want relief to get through the day and it doesn’t matter that the treatment is potentially terminal.

The emptiness of drug use is what breaks my heart. It’s like the addiction forces people to turn their backs on reality and live in a haze. It’s ironic to me that Rev. Jessie Jackson was there as the family spokesman. I do not have any knowledge of where Rev. Jessie is spiritually, but given his background as a Christian pastor, I would hope that he had shared with Michael and his family that which was most important to him. Even if Michael and Jessie had a long-term relationship, it is apparent that Jessie’s faith in God had little impact on Michael, at least as it related to self-care.

Somewhere along the line, the person that was Michael Jackson got lost in the legend of Michael Jackson. Drugs killed the person, but we can rely on the multitudes to always remember the legend. There was endless platitudes, remembrances, and people who only know the celebrity and the legend cried endlessly and lament how their lives are forever scarred. What hurt?

Why wasn’t God allowed in?

What was so overwhelming that God was not allowed in this man’s life to bring comfort and healing? The legend does not matter to me, because the legend is not real. The abuse of drugs has caused celebrity deaths in the past and drugs will continue to be the downfall of many to come. It is the individual torture of the human soul, in both the celebrated and the forgotten, the navigation of the human experience to or away from God, that is the ultimate meaning of life.

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My daughter, Jennifer 22 yrs old, has always had addiction problems. I had her in Pine River Institute for 15 months but that was four years ago. Since then her sister has died of cancer (they were not close siblings) her brother left because their sister had died.

Jennifer has gotten worse since she was introduced to Poppers. She is heavily in debt, is not taking her prescribed anti-depressants and is very angry at me, her mother. There is suicide on my maternal side and I am worried about her.

I really need support in giving me guidance as to how I am to deal with her and her addictions. I am not including Jennifer for Christmas 1) because this is her brother’s first Christmas after her sister’s death and 2) Jennifer simply wants to fight with us. She told me to leave her place last week before she hit me.

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She sounds like she needs mental health support


by: Debbie Wicker


Dear Linda,

Jennifer sounds like she is struggling and would benefit from increased help for her mental health issues.

Even though she and her sister weren’t close, the death of a sibling causes grief, which can make other mental health issues worse. Because of her anger at you it may be difficult for you to help her, but from what you’re describing she needs to be in counseling and maybe a grief support group as she tries to work through her grief and depression.

If there is anyone she is in contact with, maybe you can call them and ask them to help her to get the support she needs.

You’re in a difficult spot but don’t give up on her, there is always hope.

Debbie


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by Rod

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I am a 45 yr old man and I got addicted to narcotics at the age of 22. Now I hear from some recovering addicts that now that they are clean and have been clean for a year or longer that they are no longer an addict well in my opinion once an addict always an addict.

My addiction started off simply enough when while at work I asked my then wife if she could bring me something for a headache and she decided to crush up some hydrocodone and put them in 2 goody wrappers. She served them to me and I can remember after about 15 mins thinking WOW this stuff is amazing I was totally clueless of what hydrocodone was and what it did.

My wife was in an accident a few months prior and the Dr.s prescribed her some hydrocodone and she thought she was doing me a favor by tricking me into thinking I was taking a Goody powder. It got where I was only taking 2 hydrocodone 5mg at night cause it made me feel good and sleep better and would never take them during the day.

Well that lasted about a year and then I had to have them during the day everyday!! I was up to 20 10mg hydrocodone a day and some days more. I have been in and out of rehab 3 times and each time started back within a month.

I eventually lost everything divorced my wife and got remarried. But the pills took that marriage over and got a divorce and lost everything again all I had was some clothes and my truck. Checked into rehab for the 3rd time and a few days after checking out started back again, so after a few months decided to move far away from all the people I knew. I took the advice of some counselors to change playgrounds.

I left with 1 hydrocodone and took it on my trip. I got clean and found a good job and met a wonderful women I started a new life and was CLEAN!!! Got married and we decided to buy a home I was rocking things were great.

After 3yrs clean I had done worked my way up to GM of a company, built me a lil shop out back of my new home and things going great when the monkey jumped on my back and I couldn’t shake it and started back using.

I thought I could control it since I’ve been clean for 3yrs but boy was I wrong!!! I started doing things that was insane. Stopped spending time with the family in all areas then turned to taking from my work to support my habit.

I knew I was going to get caught but that didn’t stop me I got worse. Dec. 2011 It finally caught up with me and I got fired and now charges are brought up against me for theft. I have been clean since the wake up but now can’t find work because of a felony charge on my record.

I still have my wife but it hasn’t been easy. I’ve just about pawned all my stuff from when I got hooked again and now loosing my home. I have turned to God for help and He has helped me so much. I still have trouble sleeping and I think about pill seems like everyday.

Every morning when I get out of bed I say out loud I will not use today. It really is one day, one hour,one minute at a time and I can’t say that I will never use again but I can say that I won’t use today.

I still have a long way to go with my recovery and along way to go with making things right with my wife and family but it is worth the fight. I pray everyday sometimes 4 or more times because I do believe in God and He will see me through. I know I can’t do it by myself or my way cause as you can see my way don’t work.

I haven’t attended a NA meeting but I am planning on it and I do believe attending a meeting a week will help during recovery. Addiction is something that you will take to the grave but it don’t have to be an active addiction, IT CAN BE BEAT!!!!

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by: Debbie Wicker


I agree that once a person has an addiction they always need to be aware that they can’t use again or the addiction will start again.

I encourage you to start NA, AA or perhaps Celebrate Recovery. We are made by God to be in relationships with others and support groups can be VERY helpful in solidifying addiction recovery.

Keep up the good work and thanks for being honest about what opiate addiction is REALLY like.


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by: Rod


When I say once a addict always an addict my meaning on that is You can be an active addict ( still using ) or a Recovering addict. I know a lot of NA members don’t believe that but in my case if I take another pill I know I would start that miserable cycle all over again because I am an addict. I don’t mean to offend anyone this is just my opinion. God Bless!!


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Hello, my name is Jerry. It’s been a while since I last shared, but some of you have… I’m 44 years old with teenagers and young men. My oldest is 27 and youngest is the only girl is 16.

That being said, I sit here a reflect on my life. The only thing that I can say is, WTF.. happened to my life? Where did the YEARS go? Seems like yesterday I was holding my new born baby girl!!! I was on top of the WORLD…

I’ve been an addict for over 25-30 years. I was in my early 30s working my ass off to make sure my family is taking care of.. Loved every minute of it. I was a functional addict for years no problems.

Then in 2008-2009 when the economy crashed I brought home $35,000 in 2008, switched jobs in 2009 making better money I messed up my back and now 8-9 years later I’m a opiate addict/junkie. I never one time did I ever say I wanted to be an opiate addict. I haven’t ever seen or heard about oxycodone, hydromorphone, oxymorphone. Never got into the pills until then, and only after someone showed me how to shoot them,….. Don’t really remember to much after that.

I’ve gone to rehabs prison county jail and detoxed and felt just fine didn’t touch anything when I was locked up. It didn’t bother me till I was free to run and do what I want do… I have kicked the physical withdraws many times.

The psychological side of addiction kicks my ass Everytime!!! There may be hope… I saw online the FDA is trying stop sales and manufacturer of oxymorphone… But, I’m sure something else will take it’s place… Stay strong keep y’all’s heads up and take ONE DAY AT A TIME!!!!!

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We are each created uniquely and we experience addiction and recovery uniquely.


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Dear Jerry,

It’s good to hear from you again. It sounds like it’s a very frustrating time for you. As you have described previously, you’ve had an awful time with addiction throughout your life.

We’re each created completely uniquely, and the way we experience and recover from addiction is also unique. No one can give you a quick-fix for your addiction, but getting support from others can help.

I’d like to invite you to join our new online support group, which begins on October 7 at 9:00 am CDT. Being in a community with others who can listen and hear what you’re feeling and experiencing can begin to help you decide where you are now and where you’d like to go in the future. Here is a link to register:
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You need to register with Learn-it-Live to attend but it easy, and we encourage you to join us.

You’re certainly worth more than WTF and we look forward to meeting you on the seventh.

Debbie


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So today was a WAY better day for me, I went to my First AA meeting. && I loved it, && I'm going back Monday((: thanks to all the help of this website. It helped me out a lot. Feeling really Blessed!

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Try to find another meeting this weekend too!


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Dear Bethany,

All thing are possible with God and I'm THRILLED that you found a meeting and went to it. The 12 steps will draw you closer to God and teach you how to allow Him to help you to end this terrible disease you have.

Consider finding a weekend meeting you can go to, there are often WONDERFUL meetings on Sunday morning that will encourage you to continue your sobriety. The more good meetings that you can find the more support you will receive during this very difficult transition.

I will continue to pray for you and your entire family!

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