I am the parent of a grown child that has been an alcoholic for years. She is on a path to destruction. We are estranged, but she calls me periodically to cuss me out. My son-in-law is trying to broker a deal to get the family together. . . But I have boundaries and one of them she has to be getting help for her drinking.
"Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives; he who seeks finds; and to him who knocks, the door will be opened." - Matthew 7:7-8