My daughter (23) has been living with her boyfriend for the past 2 years, in which time she has steadily withdrawn from us and her siblings.
She has lost 2 jobs within the last 2 years, and her and her boyfriend will disappear for 2-3 days at a time. They shun all contact – don’t answer calls, don’t keep appointments and generally keep to themselves all the time.
When confronted about our suspicions she is hard, calculating and deceitful. We want them to reach out and look for help, or to speak to us.
How do we approach this without having them withdraw even more?