(Hills, NC, USA)
A month ago I had written about my 18yo daughter. We gave her the choice to get help or leave. This choice was not taken lightly and after several months of pure hell we gave her the choice.
Her ex boyfriend picked her up that night. She is now living with him and his family. We thought if she had to struggle in the real world a little she may realize how she had it made at home and something might click in her brain that she had a problem and would seek help.
Well, were we so wrong. She is still blaming everything on everybody else. She says she has no addiction or problems. I could name bunches but for the sake of time I won’t.
I am very angry at these people who have taken her in. They have no right the way I see it to interfere with the decision we made. I can not tell anybody how this is the hardest decision ever.
I cry everyday, I throw up, sick on my stomach, shake, feel like I am losing my mind. Why would my daughter realize she has a problem with drugs and alcohol or get help if these people are enabling her.
The mom buys illegal pills off the street, won’t work, thinks they are perfect and her son drinks and buys my daughter alcohol.
My daughter was so messed 3 Weds ago she was trying to kill herself. I called the sheriff. She was taken to the ER and kept 13 hours and let go. The doctors could not tell me anything because my daughter told them not to tell family anything.
I need to know if we should talk to her if she calls or texts? This is so confusing and I seriously need an answer.
I have recently started Al-anon and so far no answers. If you could answer my question, please help me.