He refuses to quit smoking crack!

by Kim

I need help! I've been living with my boyfriend for 3 years now. I'm 3 months pregnant and he refuses to quit smoking crack. I'm fed up with it i packed his stuff tonight.. but he's difficult I know he won't leave quietly.

He's been addicted since he was 14 years old he's 31 now. I can't live in this hell anymore. He's abusive emotionally, physically, verbally and I can't take it anymore.

I don't know why I keep believing his lies: I'll quit. I promised last time one more chance. He's stolen from me, lied, takes off for days then comes back to sober up for a few days maybe weeks and falls back into it.

I can't take it anymore...

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Enough is enough!
by: Debbie Wicker

Dear Kim,

Please make plans to protect yourself and your baby from your boyfriend, who sounds like he to totally out of control. Drug addiction is a disease of the brain that turns people into different people capable of doing very awful things. I recommend that you begin attending Al-anon meetings in your area TODAY!

By joining Al-anon, attending their meetings and working the 12 steps, you can begin to build your support network and figure out what you need to do to keep you and your baby safe.

Crack addiction is a very ugly addiction and your boyfriend seems to have been addicted for a very long time. He needs help, but you need to help yourself and your baby first and then try to help him if possible. Al-anon is a great resource to have, so that you can begin to move past this terrible situation.

Good Luck,

Debbie

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