Is he lying...what are the signs...
by Angel S.
My long distance boyfriend of 4 months proposed 2months ago and we're getting married in September. The last 2 months he has been very moody and over reacting when he doesn't like what I have to say. He has also had a lot of recent financial issues where I have had to loan him money...
About 2 weeks ago he had another tantrum and didn't speak to me for 6 consecutive days. When we finally started speaking he admitted he had used cocaine twice...he was a former coke addict...he aired he used twice recently.
Do you think that he will continue to use? I called off the wedding for now but I would really like work things through...
We decided to meet this weekend to work things out and see where we should go from here...my friends and family are concerned because they feel he needs to work on getting clean before he can work on us...can't he do both?
He said he's talking to his therapist and he's going to go back to NA. Do you think I'm putting myself at risk if I go across country to meet him to discuss where we're at and where we are headed?
Can a former cocaine addict use twice without it being a relapse??
I guess my family is concerned due to his overacting and getting angry and irrational over the past two months...what are your thoughts?