How to determine boundaries for helping addict?
My husband and I have been together eight years and he has a crack addiction. I finally separated six months ago with children because we were losing home etc due to him spending all money...
We HAVE been trying to work on our marriage and the addiction...he doesn't do formal treatment "as it interferes with work" ...he got his own apt and now is being evicted due to using money for drugs... so he is knocking on my door with no where to go, no money, no phone, etc. I won't let him stay here as I made move to give kids stability... but hard not to help ...what boundaries do I set?