MIL uses use pot everyday - wants to watch the kids?
My Mother-in-law has depression issues, we believe she is bi-polar and uses marijuana everyday. She takes multiple prescription drugs.
She wants to watch the kids, but I have a really hard time leaving the kids alone with her. My children are 8, 5 and 4. She gets really upset about not seeing the kids more, but when she is watching them she has absolutely no control, she will let them do anything they want, buys them anything they point at, won't put them to bed because she doesn't want to upset them etc.
Now she is asking to have them for a sleep-over, and I do not know what to tell her. My husband does not want to address the issue, neither do any of her other sons. How would you deal with the situation?