My husband used to be a heavy Oxyconton user. Then he got sober for about 2 years and has only made a few slip ups. But after I pried it out of him, he has enlightened me that he has been using cocaine once a month or so. And he tells me that he isn't addicted and doesn't need help. He's just doing it for fun. But when I get mad or upset about it he always tries to turn it around and make me look like the bad guy....
So really, I'm just trying to figure out how to give him an ultimatum and get my point across... because apparently it's not a problem.
I want to say "you need to get clean and never do it again, or our marriage is over" but I know that's not correct. And also how long is a long enough time frame with out me getting walked over?
"Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives; he who seeks finds; and to him who knocks, the door will be opened." - Matthew 7:7-8