by: Debbie Wicker

Dear Theresa,

It sounds like your husband has not only addiction problems but also other mental health issues. Somehow you’re going to have to define strict boundaries with him and stick to them so that you can get him into addiction and dual diagnosis treatment.

I’m very familiar with Celebrate Recovery and think it’s a wonderful program for you. I would also recommend that you attend Al-anon, work the 12 steps and find a sponsor. I also highly encourage Al-ateen attendance for your children, so that they can also get some support in this tragic situation.

Once you’re working the steps, begin working with your sponsor to develop a plan to get your husband into treatment. If he refuses to go, consider working with an interventionist from the addiction treatment center of your choice. The professional interventionist will likely get him into treatment and you can move forward from there.

Addiction is a disease of the brain that is often fatal if left untreated. He’s likely in the latter stages of addiction and your actions may be his last hope.

Good Luck,

Debbie Wicker